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Sarah's avatar

TALL DOES NOT EQUAL FUNNY. People (I am also people!) used to think my ex (6’7”! A TALL Tall!) was so funny. Just the funniest. And so easy going! No. It’s because he was So Tall that everyone hung onto every word he was saying. And he is A Large Man and people rarely question him, so he almost always got his way, so of course he seemed to just go with the flow.

Tall is just tall.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

Sarah. THANK YOU. thank you!!! This! Exactly!!

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Najwa's avatar

Love this! And he is your ex for a reason, right?

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Michelle B's avatar

In this age of Zoom, I have sometimes worked with people very closely without meeting in them in person for a while. And on multiple occasions when I do meet them in person, I get surprised reactions because though I'm a short, they think I'm tall. One person literally said, "But you have tall energy!" I didn't know whether to be complimented or offended? Like I still am not sure??

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Domenica Ruta 🧿's avatar

What’s so great about reaching shit on the top shelf? That’s where the weird unlidded water bottles go. Big woop.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

so you get to lift suitcases into overheads? cool. wow.

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Leandra's avatar

The absolute hottest, smartest, sexiest man I know is 5’ 4” and he hates being short, but his height is the least interesting thing about him.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

I already have a crush oh no

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Keris Fox's avatar

This made me laugh. And the jumping photo is perfect!

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

always trying to jump HIGH for some of that tall people air

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Najwa's avatar

As a short person I appreciate this post SO much! Thank you

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

JUSTICE FOR THE SHORTS

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sarah // astrology x sarah's avatar

Also we have seen this on Bravo with Austen: tall does not equal hot.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

💯🙏

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sarah // astrology x sarah's avatar

I remember my (then future) MIL asking me what I liked about my husband (a tall) and I said, "He's very useful." AND YOU KNOW WHAT, HE IS. He gets things off high shelves and that is a plus.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

Honestly more husbands should take a note on being useful I SAID IT

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Sandra Critchlow's avatar

Aaron Critchlow is TALL and of course he married a short. Part of their vows was for him to get thinks off of high shelves. Completely complementary.

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

I love it

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Heather LaForge's avatar

Just this weekend I told someone of your mantra: tall is not a personality!!

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

spreading the good word

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Sophie's avatar

As someone who is 6 feet tall, I have been begging people my whole life to not dilute my entire personality down to “tall”. My 13-year-old daughter is only an inch or two behind me and it’s all anyone can say about her. We are both, for the record, hilarious. 😉 To paraphrase Glinda (stay with me), “Are some people born with ‘tall as their whole personality’? Or do they have ‘tall as their whole personality’ thrust upon them?” YA KNOW?! 😜

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Ibrahim Khan's avatar

Yesssssss👍

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Kelly Stonelake's avatar

It’s somehow true that for me, tall is hot, and also that I agree completely with every word you’ve written here. Thanks for giving us a script to go off script 🩷

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Kathleen Donahoe's avatar

look, we interrogate beauty standards all the time! IT IS TIME FOR TALL TO COME TUMBLING DOWN

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Kelly Stonelake's avatar

This tall girl (who always wanted to be 4 inches shorter) bows down!

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Rebecca's avatar

Pour a little out for the us of our twenties, wondering why love was so hard, while dating literal clowns.

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